Sunday, February 12, 2012

This Week at The Remmers'

Hello friends and family!  As usual, we have had a very full week.  Lots of evidence this week that our kids are growing up.  Ack!

Monday was the first Monday of the month, which means Super Cleaning Day at our house.  The kids and I rolled up our sleeves and got to work.  Usually we go out to dinner because I'm too pooped to cook, but luckily we had lots of leftovers for everyone to dig into.  As for me, I am continuing with the raw food delivery service, except with half the amount of food (and for half the price).  It's so nice to have delicious food just waiting for me, without having to lift a finger!  This week I enjoyed:  Pasta Puttanesca, Thai Autumn Salad, Rosemary Mashed "Potatoes", Brussels Sprouts, Thai Coconut Curry Soup, Tomato Soup, Marinated Green Beans, Pepper Corn Salad, Chocolate Mousse, and Key Lime Pie.  Yum!

On Tuesday I had another doctor's appointment and learned the distressing news that I may be allergic to my office!  In order to uncover the root cause of my chronic hip problems, he started thinking about chemical causes of inflammation and suggested we test a couple of things in the house, such as laundry detergent, dish soap, etc.  He told me to set out a jar of distilled water in various rooms in the house, but I only did the office, since that's where I spent the majority of my time.

Sure enough, it tested positive for (and I had a positive reaction) to carpet mold.  Not surprising, since it has flooded down there more than once!  The next step is to test other rooms in the house to make sure it is not throughout, and then our choice is to either to do a massive clean up down there (which is not covered by insurance) or move my office to the spare room (which would mean moving the spare room down to the basement.  Whichever we decide, it's not going to be fun.  Argh!!!!!!

Also on Tuesday was piano.  We're getting closer and closer to Festival, where they will be judged on their progress.  It's so nervewracking! 

Finally, Tuesday was also my latest Meetup, where I taught "How to get rid of stress, boredom and step into a sense of purpose".  We were small in number, but those that were there gave high marks on their feedback forms.  One student said, "Margie's energy, excitement, and positiveness were the best part."  Yay me!

On Wednesday, Dan and I got a small dose of what it's like to parent a teen, as we attended Parent Night at Mark Twain Middle School.  We can't believe our baby is growing up!  First, in the lecture hall (lecture hall!) we learned about the various honors options available at both the middle school and high schools (so many decisions to make!), then we moved to the cafeteria to learn about the transition to 7th grade, electives, core curriculum, and no recess!  It's a little overwhelming, but at least we're not alone.  Almost all the parents in the room were making the transition with their kids for the first time, too.  The principal was very nice and understanding.  "We totally get it," she said.  "Don't panic."

A few weeks ago, Lyn's class went on a tour of the school and learned about electives.  It sounds like she has her whole 2 years planned out!  She is very excited.  I think we're more nervous than she is--but I guess that's normal.  I think I remember that being the case when I was a kid as well.  (I know when I left for college, I didn't give my parents a second thought--I doubt that was the same for them!  LOL).  Anyway, next week the people from the school will be visiting Lyn's classroom to talk to them again about the transition.  Looks like they're working hard to make sure it is as smooth as possible.

Thursday was of course ballet, though no chess club, so it wasn't too crazy. Dan spent the evening helping Port City Playhouse.  They borrowed two doors from the LTA shop (where Dan is the co-chair), which he helped install.

Friday morning was my monthly weigh-in, which I do on the 10th of each month.  My results were less than stellar--only two pounds lost, and no inches (in fact, I gained half an inch in my thighs, but that may have been due to a measuring error).  But that's OK.  The smaller I get, the slower I can anticipate the weight loss to be.  You know what they say about those last ten pounds!

On Friday evening we attended the Cub Scout Blue and Gold Banquet.  This year, the theme was "Remembering Our Ancestors", and each boy had to research and talk about someone in their family.  Dan remembered that his grandpa, Martin Remmers, was quite a practical joker, and we thought the boys would love to hear about his antics.  But when Dan called his dad, he ended up just asking for a story. 

In response, Gene wrote a lovely story about his horse, Johnny, which they got when he was about John's age.  He even shared a picture of himself on the horse!  I was able to film most of it (sorry about the poor quality--I accidentally filmed it sideways and it lost video quality when I rotated it):



We added the funny tag line because when we read it for the first time, John asked if that was where he got his name.  We had to remind him that no, he was named after his Uncle John, who was named after his Uncle John, who was named after his Uncle John, etc.  :o)

After the banquet, we came home and watched Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone.  When I was at the grocery store they were selling, for whatever reason, the first two Harry Potter DVDs for only $2 each!  Of course I had to get them for my Harry Potter fanatic daughter.  She spent the entire movie jumping up and down on the couch--she was sooooo excited!
On Saturday, I had my basketball game.  We lost, again, by about the same margin we always do.  I didn't play much, because I was totally confused.  We had practiced last week. and I felt like I was ready to put what I learned into action, but most of the girls at the game hadn't been at the practice and we just weren't on the same page.  Sigh...  What we really need is a coach who can watch the game and tell us specifically where to play and what to do.  At least that's what I need.  Maybe I'll join a real league at some point (rather than church ball), so I can get a handle on things.

After the game, I ran the score board for the next one.  I thought I was just going to be adding time and points, which is easy enough, but then I found out I was also in charge of keeping track of possession.  Argh!  Luckily, the woman keeping the books next to me helped me out.  Whew!

When all that was done, I ran home, grabbed a bite to eat, and then Lyn and I ran out the door again to do some babysitting.  It was fun to watch Lyn with little 16 month old Nathan, and to see her eagerly learn about taking care of little ones.  She is really growing up!
Lyn & Nathan
When we got home, we ate dinner that Dan had prepared (he's so awesome!) and then watched Harry Potter and The Chamber of Secrets.  This time, Lyn was calm, but it was hard to keep her from saying things like "They skipped XYZ!" and "That's not how it's supposed to happen!"  We finally had to threaten to send her to her room so we could finish watching the movie!  LOL

After the movie, though, it was good to have a resource so we could ask questions.  There were a few things that I didn't quite understand.  I think I'm going to have to watch both movies again.  Besides, it was fun to watch the kid actors age a whole year in 24 hours.

As luck would have it, there is going to be a Harry Potter marathon on cable next weekend, so we have the DVR set to record the next 5 movies.  (The last one we will have to rent.)  It's going to be fun!

Today was a typcial Sunday.  Lyn and I had choir practice in the morning.  After lunch, we had a visit from some of the folks from church, and in the afternoon the kids and I headed to church, while Dan went to LTA to help out with the latest set.

And that's all our news this week.  Hope you are doing well and staying warm!  We've had a bit of a cold snap, but I don't think it's going to stay long. 

Take care!

Monday, February 6, 2012

This Week at the Remmers'

Hi all!  I hope everyone continued to do well.

Things are crazy busy here as always--just like we like it!  :o)

Monday and Tuesday the kids had off school.  It was the end of the quarter and the teachers needed time to put together report cards.  Unfortunately, Dan and I both had to work, so we didn't do much that was exciting or different.

On Monday we had our usual cleaning day--or "house blessing" day as I like to call it.  It had been a couple weeks since we'd done it (due to John's illness and later doctor's visit), so it felt GREAT to have a clean house again!  Since I had extra use of the kids, I also enlisted their help in cleaning out the pantry section of the basement, as part of "Mission Zero":  my ongoing effort to reduce my belongings to as little as possible.  We had been working on it piece by piece over the last few weeks, but with our concentrated effort, we were able to FINISH IT.  I wish you could see it.  It truly is a thing to behold--clean, organized, and walkable.  Yay!

On Tuesday, everyone pretty much did their own thing.  I had a doctor's appointment in the morning, just like I do every Tuesday, to deal with my chronic hip problems.  I'm not quite sure how long I'll keep going, as things don't seem to be improving, and it is an out of pocket expense that is not paid for by our insurance.  Very frustrating.

John spent his day off doing his very favorite thing--watching YouTube videos.  In a sense, I hate to let him do it all day, but he spends the whole day laughing! How can I deprive him of something that obviously brings such joy?  Lyn spent her day doing her very favorite thing--reading Harry Potter.  She has now finished all seven books and has started over again.  She loves discovering things that she realizes now are important, but she had missed the first time around.

Also, on Tuesday, Lyn and I paid a visit to Dress Barn, my very favorite clothing store.  I had received a couple of $10 off coupons that expired that day, so I needed to be sure and use them.  There was no minimum purchase, and I could have used them on anything, but I was specifically looking for a white top.  I ended up with a white top and matching sweater--I think they were the only two things in the whole store that were not on sale!  So I ended up spending more than I intended, but it was a drop in the bucket compared to what I wanted to spend, so I guess that was good.  I'm looking forward the end of this diet so I can go on a real shopping spree!

Speaking of my diet, the woman who teaches the raw food class that I attend once a month is now providing prepared raw food home delivery.  The price was so reasonable, and the food sounded so good, I signed up for it right away.  Over the course of the week I got to enjoy: Creamy Zucchini "Pasta" w/ Tomatoes & Basil, Marinated Greens, Corn Chowder, Broccoli/Walnut Salad, Cheezy Cauliflower, Spinach Basil Salad, Dolmas, Tabouli, Raw Pad Thai, Citrus Kale Salad, Pea Soup, Sweet Root Salad, Spinach Nut Burger, Broccoli Cabbage Salad, Tacos, "Potato" Salad (made with cauliflower), Pizza, Caesar Salad, Chili, Cole Slaw, Caramel "Oreos", Crackers with Olive Tapenade, Apple Pie, Crackers with Red Pepper Hummus.  (And you thought raw food was boring!)

It was all delicious, and the price and convenience could not be beat, but wow!  That was a lot of food!  She agreed to let me do a half order this week.  We'll see how it goes!

Anyway, back to Tuesday.  The kids had their piano lesson as usual, but I missed it because I drove out to Crofton, MD for a business event.  It was run by the same people that had put on the luncheon I went to last week, but it was not as good.  I wrote on my comment card how it could be better, and guess what?  I got an email from them that they were implementing my suggestion!  Wow.  Also, I found out yesterday that I won the drawing for a table/exhibit at their next event.  Very cool.

On Wednesday I had a business lunch in Shirlington at Busboy's and Poets.  I had no idea that there was one so close to me!  The original is in DC--it's a great hippie, beatnik hangout.  We've only been there once because it's so far away, but it is super cool, and super vegan, vegetarian, and gluten free friendly.  Now that I know there is one right around the corner, I can't wait to go back when I'm off my diet!

On Thursday I had basketball practice.  I actually learned a few things and think I might improve my game.  Yay!

Thursday was also "Crazy Thursday," which means ballet and chess club fall on the same day.  It was extra crazy this week because I had a PTA meeting to attend, as well as copies to make of the monthly PTA newsletter I publish.  I was super grateful to Dan and Lyn for taking care of the copies while I attended the meeting.

On Friday, Dan took the day off of work so he could work on the car.  We had several thousand dollars worth of work done on it recently, and the check engine light was still on.  It's due for an inspection, and he knew we wouldn't pass if it was on (I'm so glad I'm married to a man who knows these things!)  He managed to borrow a machine from the auto parts store to turn it off, but when he took it into the shop they said he had to drive it for several miles first.  So he spent the day driving it to nowhere in particular.

Also on Friday we met with an agent about long term care insurance.  We definitely need to get our affairs in order while we're young and healthy, but the budget just doesn't allow for this quite yet.

In the evening, we all headed to LTA to the The 25th Annual Putnam County Spelling Bee.  Not only did I have friends in the cast, but I had auditioned for it a few months ago, and I always like to see if it's any good without me!  LOL  It was quite good, though one of the numbers was inappropriate for children.  The LTA staff knows this, so ever since they opened, they held the children in the lobby after intermission until the offending song (the first song of the second act) was over, and then let them back in.  I am so grateful for LTA!  I am also grateful that Dan and I have such good rapport there.  John didn't want to see the show, so instead of finding a babysitter, he was allowed to stay in the office and play on the computer (watching his YouTube videos, of course).  We couldn't do that anywhere else.

On Saturday morning I attended a class sponsored by the women's organization at church on caring for our aging parents.  It was really fantastic.  It's an uncomfortable subject to talk frankly about preparing for someone's death, but it really had to be done.

Also on Saturday, Dan and John had some boy bonding time as they fixed the toilet in the basement and hung some new blinds in the family room.

Lyn and I cleaned out the linen closet as part of "Mission Zero".  We can now actually close the doors. Woo hoo!

We ended Saturday night with an exciting round of...haircuts!  Yes, we live a glamorous life.  I cut Dan's and John's, and Dan shaved mine.  I never intended to keep my hair so short, but I found I really like it, and everyone tells me it looks good on me.  Apparently I have a nice shape for a head!

This morning, Lyn and I had choir practice, after which I worked a little bit on my book.  I had planned to enter it in the Penguin junior fiction contest and just realized that the deadline was today! They wanted a 300 word pitch and a 3000 word excerpt.  I wrote one more chapter, which puts it just over 3000 words. Whew! Unfortunately, they also wanted the complete manuscript. (I didn't realize that until tonight.) I filled the rest of the document with lorem ipsum just to get it up to the 50,000 word requirement, but of course I will be disqualified for the final prize ($15,000 plus a publishing contract). Still, the first round winners are selected only from the pitch. And the second round winners are selected only from the excerpt. So even though I can't win the contest, at least it will get in front of people. And there is still a possibility that it will be picked up by Penguin. The contest rules stipulate that they have a right to publish the non-winners for up to 6 months. So that's good.

Here again is the link to the completed portions of the book.  I would love your feedback!

That's it for us.  Of course we love to hear what's going on in your lives, too.  Take care and keep warm!  :)